Why We Fail to Ask for What We Need (and Deserve) in the Workplace


The Office Blend


It is difficult to ask for what we need career-wise. But, that doesn’t make us less deserving. We all have something we need — Recognition. A more flexible schedule. Increased challenge. Exposure.

But we are fearful. We hesitate. We obsess. We role-play the potential outcome of the conversations in our minds.

To progress in today’s world of work, mastering “the ask” is an absolute necessity. Wherever you find yourself in your career journey — asking for what we need is simply a challenge we must overcome.

So, how do we address this common problem? Rather than examining the “hows” of asking for what we need — it is best to examine the “whys” behind our initial hesitation.

A few things that hold us back:

  • We’re in the dark. In some cases, we are simply unsure of our actual career worth. Why? Because we don’t seek honest feedback. Asking your…

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About my2twobits

I am a 40+ male PR executive from India. I have deliberately kept my identity hidden so that I can freely, frankly open my heart and share my feelings about people I know from work and outside. Hope you enjoy the resulting emotional free-flow in my posts. I do fear and dread the day when my identity is disclosed and I may be forced to totally delete this blog, unless of course a publisher comes with an interesting offer ;)

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